Finding Your Center
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This week is about energy management.
In high-pressure environments, we often feel a sense of "systemic overwhelm"—the crushing weight of things we cannot fix. We worry about the economy, the weather, past mistakes, or the unpredictable actions of others. When we give our attention to these "Outer Circle" elements, we leak energy, leaving us exhausted and feeling powerless.
Unlearning the armour means recognizing that we don’t have to carry the weight of the things we cannot change. By mapping out our concerns, we can distinguish between what is Out of My Control, what is within My Influence, and what is under My Control.
The goal isn't to become indifferent to the world, but to become effective within it. When we stop trying to "control" the weather or someone else's opinion and instead focus on our own Effort, Attitude, and Decisions, we find our "Center of Control." This is where our power resides. Clarity here doesn't just reduce anxiety; it transforms "What if?" into "What now?"
Mapping Your Focus
- To reclaim your energy and find your center, try this practice:
- Identify the Stressor: Take a moment to think about something currently weighing on your mind.
- Map the Circles: Ask yourself: "Can I change this (Control), sway this (Influence), or must I accept this (Out of Control)?"
- Focus on the "Now": If it’s in the outer ring, practice the art of letting go. If it’s in the center, identify one small "Next Step" you can take right now.
- Let Go of the "What Ifs": Replace the fear of the future with the reality of your current agency.
- The Check-in: Remind yourself that you cannot control the storm, but you can always control how you sail the ship.
The audio of this segement of Dr Sarah On Call.